Monday, March 29, 2010



Yesterday, the 28th of March we celebrated our 45th Wedding Anniversary.
Life has been fulfilling...Children have turned out well...Caring and succesful.
Follows a poem sent to me by my niece Nitu and her daughter.

Dear Uncle and Aunty ;
Wishing you both a Very Happy 45th Anniversary

Your anniversary is a time
For sharing your affection;
It’s obvious the two of you
Have quite a deep connection!
We send glad congratulations
And heartfelt wishes, too,
For joyful happiness and love
In everything you do.

Loves
Jina and Nitu

...and I add:
Mujhe mere Maalik bahut kuchh diya hai,
Tera Shukriya hai bahut shukriya hai

Tuesday, March 23, 2010



Yes, I am being blessed by an elephant...and we must remember that Ganpati removes obstacles...and does'nt He have an elephant head?
Incidentally, it is a real elephant and it felt great!




Ram kehne ka mazaa jiskee zubaan par aa gayaa
dhanya jeevan ho gaya chaaron padaarath paa gayaa
I have heard: 'Ram se bada Ram ka naam'
And here, the stones floated on the Ocean with the name of Sri ram inscribed on it!
Sham Keswani with the floating stone in a small tub of water!






With Sham and Kanchan Keswani, my gracious hosts. This is the Gopuram in Meenakshi. The door through which one enters the main Temple. It was built in the 17th Century. various Kings built it along the 600 years.
There are countless beautiful pillars on the corridors of the Temples in Madurai, Meenakshi and Rameshwaram. At one point I rested at one of the temples which had Rudrakshas as curtains. Looking at the Pillars was a mesmerizing experience. What a rich culture does our Motherland have!





At Madurai, Meenakshi Temple. From Madurai we drove to Rameshwaram. I must tell you something interesting! After Sri Ram returned triumphant to Rameshwaran after having killed Ravan. Sri Ram could not escape the 'dosh' of having killed a 'Brahmin'so he had to atone. How? by bathing in 21 rivers. So Sri Ram called 21 rivers to Rameshwaram. So we follow His foot steps. We first bathe in the Ocean and while we circumbulate the Temple, we have a 'lota' of water poured over our head from 21 different wells. The strange thing is that every water tasted different and the water was clean and clear!
Another coincidence? On the flight back from Bangalore, I had a gentleman sitting next to me who is a de-salienation expert. Unofficially he said that the taste being different was a sort of 'miracle' but scientifically it comes from different platelets in the Earth!





Look up the map. This is the spot in Rameshwaram where I am told Sri Ram built the bridge to Lanka. At this spot, the Arabian Sea, Indian Ocean and Bay of Bengal meet!
We could see the tip of Lanka. If you google Ram Setu (Bridge) it is visible from Satellite! There are 9 submerged islands (5 with Sri Lanka and 5 with India) on which the bridgewas built! It is only 18Km to Sri Lanka. Sri Ram took the help of brilliant architects called Nal and Neel...Do you have any doubt? of what of the fact that Sri Ram and Nal and Neel were brilliant!

For those who know the Ramayan. Sri Ram prayed to the Ocean before He could build the bridge. The Sea promised to be calm. Today, the inhabitants gleefully and with faith and gratitude observe that the Ocean has kept its practice. No Tsunami came to their coast while it devastated those nearby.



This is the point from where Sri Ram surveyed the best point from where to approach Lanka to redeem Seeta. saw a temple called Govinda Raman. Sri Ram took upon Himself the name because it was at this spot that Vibheeshan surrendered himself to Sri Ram. Vibheeshan was Raavan's brother.


Rameshwaram
There are 4 chardhams. ie 4 pilgrimage places which needed to be visited by devout Hindus. In the north: Badrinath, Kedarnath, Gangotri Jamnotri (I have been to Badrinath and Gangoti)
Then the Ancient sages urged one to travel the 4 corners of our blessed Bharat Desh to seek blessings.
So again we have 4 chardhams: Badrinath in the north, Dwarkanath in the West, Rameshwaram in the South and jagannathpuri in the East.
I have visited Badrinath, where my son in law Mohan took me,Dwarka where my husband took me. My next desire was to visit Rameshwaram...I tried several times but obviously the Bulaava had not come, so I had a private conversation with the Lord where I told Him that if He wanted to invite me to His Dhaam He would have to arrange it for me...I would not lift a finger and miraculously it did!

Sunday, March 14, 2010



Real picture of Amelia Earhart


Saw the movie 'Amelia' yesterday. Amelia Earhart lived in the 30s. She wanted to pilot a plane. She wanted to fly. When she was asked: Why? She answered: "Why does a man want to ride a horse?" Sheis an inspiration of women everywhere, anytime. She lived her dream even though she had to give her life in return...But she truly lived...Another feather on a woman's cap: The movie was directed by Mira Nair!
Amelia's part was played by Hilary Swank

Wednesday, March 10, 2010



I recently spoke at the Rotary on 'Literacy 2010 Vidya and Avidya'
One of the things I said is 'Literacy is not only about Learning' but also 'Unlearning' What is one thing we need to unlearn? That we are too old to learn and have fun!
See my friends the Mahajans enjoying themselves...and all it takes is 'shared coconut water.
Shakun








National Pilgrimage:
The Cellular Jail (infamously called Kala Paani) which was used by the British for the dreaded criminals and later for the political prisoners, is to be treated as a National pilgrimage. Let us send our children and grand-children to Port Blaire to learn how our Azadi ke Diwane were sacrificed for the freedom we are enjoying today. The Light and Sound programme in the evening makes you emotional and I saw at least 3 persons wiping their tears during the 45-minute programme. Veer Savarkar was jailed here. Netaji Subhash Chander Bose visited the jail to get better facilities for the prisoners.
K.B.Mahajan

Sunday, March 07, 2010



Painting: My daughter Madhavi
Women's DayTomorrow March the 8th is Women's Day.
I have written a book on the Power of the Feminine (qualities like compassion, love)
It is up for free perusal on my website.
Click:
http://www.dalsabzi.com/the_power_of_the_feminine.pdf

The passage of the Women's Reservation Bill is a big victory for the cause of gender equality.
Maybe one day a woman will not need a special day...just like a man does not...because every day will be a woman's day like a man's has been since times immemorial...the reason for being man's day every day? Because man was physically (not in matters of health but physical strength) stronger...he needed to go out to hunt while the woman was supposed to keep the home fires burning...That scenario has changed!
I have always maintained that Meerabai was one of the 1st women who lived life on her own terms...and this week she features 1st in the Crest Edition of the Times of India.
Meerabai (1498-1547)
'...Meerabai has come to represent the enigmatic and indomitable nature of femininiy in its inevitable confrontation with the world. A cosmic consciousness, for which the world is not enough'

Friday, March 05, 2010



I just finished reading 'Have a little faith' by Mitch Albom, the author of Tuesdays with Corrie.

Some excerpts


'Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich'
Napoleon

Meaning:
Without the fear of God –or literally the hell we might have to pay –the rest of us would just take what we wanted.

The news headlines certainly endorsed that idea. In recent months, there had been terrorist train blasts in India, greedy executives sentenced in the Enron fraud case, a truck driver who’d shot five girls in an Amish schoolhouse, and a California congressman sent to jail for taking millions in bribes while living on a yacht.

‘Do you think that our nature is evil?’
Mitch asked the Reb
“No” he said, “I believe there is goodness in man”
So we do have better angels?
“Deep down, yes.”
Then why do we do so many bad things?
He sighed: “Because one thing God gave us-and I am afraid it’s at times a little too much-is free will. Freedom to choose. I believe he gave us everything needed to build a beautiful world if we choose wisely.
“But we can also choose badly. And we can mess things up something awful.
Can man change between good and evil?
The Reb nodded slowly. “In both directions.”

Tuesday, March 02, 2010

I saw the movie Invictus today...an episode from the life of Nelson Mandela.
Invictus is the poem that inspired him. It inspired me too..So here it is!

Invictus
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley

Saturday, February 27, 2010





Holi falls on the 28th of February
Do read about Holi
and also tell your children the story of Holika.
Click:

http://www.dalsabzi.com/Language_Festivals/holi.htm

http://www.dalsabzi.com/Books/kids_kahaani/bhaagvad_stories/prahlad_and_holika.htm

Thursday, February 25, 2010



Nice piture no? Yes it is particularly nice because there are 2 love items...The shawl i am wearing has been knitted by my pyaari Anju and the painting behind Buddha by my chhotisi pyaari Jina!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010




On the 17th Dec 2009 I attended an interesting session by Robert Benninga at Thadomal Shahani Engineering College.I was invited by Ms Maya Shahani the Chairperson of Sage (Shahani Academic and Global Empowerment)

'Robert S. Benninga MBA is a leading authority and highly rated keynote speaker, his success is based on his inspiring personality, break-through capacities and ‘X-ray eyes and ears’

An exercise: Hold a rubber band in your hand. Aim high. Let go of yesterday (the lower hand... or viceversa. It will hurt.
If you only hold it and dont let go...it will not hurt but you go nowhere!

Exercise 2:
Look up
Smile
Clap
Think of something negative...

It is not possible

Exercise 3: Look down
Slouch
Think of something positive...
Difficult to do that!

Do I need to tell you the moral of the above execises?
You are smart...I bet you figured out what you need to do!

Think about this:
To take the apple from your apple tree, you have to plant a tree long ago...

You know how many seeds there are in an apple...But you dont know how many apples there are in a tree...

Therefore take care of 'seeds'

To make a Sculpture Masterpiece the artist has to chisel away the extra marble...

If you dont get attention...then you start blaming and then...claiming...

What works:
Discipline, faith, courage, peace and trust!

To reach your goal you require:
Commitment, Ownership, Integrity, Excellence, Communication, Success, Education, Team, Balance, Fun, Consistency, Gratitude...

Friday, February 19, 2010



In the picture Dzongsar Khentse Rinpoche

On the 24th Jan 2010 attended a Q and A session at the National College,Bandre. hosted by Dharma Rain
Some points:
Reincarnation: You re-incarnate from moment to moment.
Buddhism does not believe there is something big or small. It is all relative.
Dzongsar Khentse Rinpoche really respected Hindus and Hinduism...Lord Buddha came from India.
He said: You are a Buddha, everyone is a Buddha...Religions are different and they should be different...Everyone connects with a certain Master...

Thursday, February 18, 2010




I am told that Vrindavan has its own Kumbh, because the Brijvasis love Vrindavan so much that they want to go nowhere else.

Kumbh Mela, Vrindavan: 16th February 2010: An enviro - spiritual discourse programme was organized at the Paryavaran Khalsa of Friends of Vrindavan. The school children from different schools attended this programme. The purpose to organize this programme was to aware the school children about the link of spirituality with the environment. Ms. Sashi Mahajan from the Women's movement for Peace and Prosperity, Mumbai, Ms. Radhika, famous tarot reader, Mr. Madhumangal Shukla, environment activist, Mr. K. B. Mahajan and Mr. Swapan Goswami addressed the school children how the spirituality is linked with the environment. Daadi Nani ki Kahani - book written by Ms. Shakun Narain was distributed among the school children. The mid - day meal was distributed to the school children by the Akshay Patra Foundation after the programme.
In the photo on the left Ms Shashi Mahajan, translator in Hindi of 'Dadi Nani ki kahaani' inspiring students with her compassion and knowledge.
Please note 'Women's Movement for Peace and Prosperity' in the banner

I got the following note from Jagannath Poddar (He is my contact and the one who links me to activities in Vrindavan)

Dear Shakun Ji,

Radhe Radhe! This is in reference to our telephonic conversation regarding the support for purchasing a fully automatic cutting machine as an accessory to our hand made paper unit. As you are aware that a hand made paper unit is being operated by us to recycle the paper waste generated in Vrindavan and finding livelihood for the poor unprivileged women. There was a need to purchase a calendaring machine and a fully automatic cutting machine to enhance the production of the plant. We have procured both the machines. While we paid the full amount for the calendaring machine, but paid Rupees One lac for the automatic cutting machine, we still need to pay the balance of Rs. 86,000.

Since you are the chairperson of the Women's movement for peace and prosperity, we make an appeal to kindly forward this message to all your members of the WMPP to contribute some donation for this purpose. Apart from all other members you may kindly request Maya Sahni Ji or Avanti Ji to support us to pay the balance. Any amount for this cause is most welcome.


Pranams,

Yours sincerely,

Jagannath Poddar
Director
Friends of Vrindavan
Chhota Munger Mandir Nursery,
Swami Vivekananda Marg, Mathura Road,
Post - Vrindavan, Dist - Mathura (U.P.)
Tel: (0565) 2442771; 09412279139; 09997033889
www.friendsofvrindavan.com
email: info@friendsofvrindavan.com

Tuesday, February 16, 2010




I saw 'My name is Khan' and I liked it. It is about Rizvan (Shah Rukh Khan)and the trauma he faces because his name is Khan. He takes whatever his mother teaches him to be truth absolute and the beauty is that he convices his audience too.
What his mother teaches is a 'fact' nothing new...but do we look at that truth that way..? or do we remember it often enough? What does his mother teach? That there are 2 kinds of people in the world...those good and others not so good...Sadly life is more complicate than that? or maybe not?

Monday, February 15, 2010





I am proud to be a Sindhi.
A major part of Sindhis came to India with nothing when India was partitioned.
Though the Bengalis, Punjabis...got a part of land that came to India. We left behind our land, culture and language!
We did not waste time whining.
We set out and started in a humble manner. Yes we are accused of being 'money minded' but can you blame us? We had to survive...We did not beg but relied on ourselves. We were/are loyal and became a part of those who welcomed us!
and today 60 years later, we have hospital, education institutions and are giving back to society...

...and now Pune has been attacked...a place full of saints and revered beings...a German bakery a favourite hang out...Dada Jashan Vaswani hospital is near the place.
I got the following note from them!


Inlaks Hospital & Sadhu Vaswani College of Nursing’s Pivotal Role in Treating Victims of the Bomb Blast at PuneThe tragedy that hit around 7:00 pm on 13th Feb 2010 at German Bakery is less than 1 km from the Inlaks and Budhrani Hospital, part of the Sadhu Vaswani Mission’s Medical Complex at Koregaon Park, Pune. The hospital started receiving the injured within 10 minutes of the tragedy despite traffic jams near the Koregaon Park area. The OPD Section took in all the patients, immediately attending to them with no documents or questions asked. While the patients were being taken in, the calls had already gone out from the GM, Mr. Sunder Vaswani, to their doctors and nurses.

The resident doctors, nurses, nursing superintendents & nursing students of its associated wing, Sadhu Vaswani College of Nursing, who were staying on the campus immediately converged at the Casualty and the ICU. Without delay they started rendering First Aid and medical help to the injured. The serious ones were rushed to the ICU.

The whole team of the hospital that comprised of Senior Consultants, Neuro Surgeon, General Surgeon, Orthopaedic Surgeon, Cardio-Thoracic Surgeon, Plastic Surgeon, Onco Surgeon, Physicians, Urologist, Dermatologist, Anesthetists, ICU Consultants and Radiologists were soon upon the scene to give their complete support and try and save as many lives as possible.

30 injured patients with minor injuries were given First Aid in the Casualty and General Ward and were relieved on stabilization.

Another 22 patients who were critically injured were brought to the hospital. The Hospital has 25 ICU beds and 20 were already occupied. But still these critically injured people were somehow managed in the ICU ward. 6 patients were sent to Sassoon Hospital when their condition was stable, due to insufficient ICU Support. Out of the remaining 16 patients, currently 8 patients are in ICU and 5 have been shifted to general wards as their condition was stabilized. Three patients succumbed to the injuries.

In addition to the above, 2 males were brought in dead and the 3rd patient died of grievous injuries immediately on reaching the hospital. After necessary documentation, the bodies were handed over to the police authorities.

3 patients with badly mutilated limbs were immediately taken to the Operation Theatre. A full team of Inlaks & Budhrani hospital surgeons battled hard but to save their lives had to take the unfortunate decision to amputate the limbs. The age of all the patients ranged between 20-30 years. Most of the patients had burns, fragmentation injuries, multiple fractures, etc.

The Drug Store was thrown open with no dearth in medical material and medicine supply. The Logistics Department opened up all the critical store facilities taking care that the treatment to these disaster victims was unhindered.

The Hospital Management is grateful to the enthusiastic and caring people of Pune who came in large numbers to donate blood for the bomb blast victims. The Management also expressed gratitude to the Police Authorities who ensured that the relatives and public was well informed at the Hospital to maintain law and order. Many Political Leaders came to the Hospital and offered their assistance.

The doctors and staff along with the budding ‘Florence Nightingales’ of the Sadhu Vaswani College of Nursing came together in a great display of teamwork working past the night to bring critical care and save lives at the time of disaster.

-
The PR Office
Sadhu Vaswani Mission
Pune, India
Office:91-20-2605 5640
Board: 91-20-40064447 Ext 252
Fax: 91-20-2612 7474
Email: pro@sadhuvaswani.org
Logon for the latest - http://www.sadhuvaswani.org

Sunday, February 14, 2010



In the picture: Chetan Bhagat (India's pop fiction writer) and Mohammed Hanif (Painted a satirical picture of life under General Zia in his book, A case of exploding mangoes)

On February the 4th I attended an interesting programme at Horniman Circle in Mumbai.
It was part of 'Aman ki Asha' an initiative of The Times of India and the Jang Group of Pakistan.
Two Punjabi writers, one Indian and one Pakistani got together to explode Indo-Pak myths.

Both authors agreed on one thing-Pakistan's troubles are therapeutic for Indians. 'Everytime we feel lousy about the men ruling our country to do all we have to do is look accross at our neighbour'
About Kasab, Hanif said "...the Taliban believe in a system of speedy justice where they hang people without a trial. You in India have a very complex judicial system that has taken very good care of the country unlike Pakistan. You have judicial system and a democracy that you should thank your lucky stars for. If the system is slow you can take to the streets and protest against it. But please dont push for summary execution. Because then you become a lot like certain people whom we both dont like.
(Excerpts from Times of India February 4)

Bhagat said at one point: " We want peace not because we love Pakistan but because we love India!

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

Shivratri is on the 12th.
Be inspired by the life of Johar and then scroll down to the following blog to 'link' with Lord Shiva!

I have posted the following article because:
1) I am karmically connected with the author Mr Mahajan
2) I have a cousin sister who is 'otherwise abled' she has polio and is doing wonderfully with afflicted children and an ngo called SEC
3)I like people who say 'YES' to life despite setbacks!




KING OF THE DISABLED

-by K B Mahajan

Chor-chor, chor, bacchao,bachao

Bang! Bang!! Bang!!!

And he fell on the floor, bleeding.

The thieves ran away. The victim, about 30 years of age, was moved to the hospital at 2.35 a.m. Doctors saved his life. Next morning, however, it was declared that out of three bullets, two had docked in his body. Nobody thought that he would live as the wounds were grievous and blood loss was so much. But the man lived much bigger than what he was.

Crippled and tied down to bed for the last 23 years is Rajinder Johar who worked as a Sr. Occupational Therapist at King George’s Medical College, Lucknow for nearly 17 years. Had he not grappled with the thieves and hit by bullets, Johar would have worked and retired just like any other government employee, unsung.

The disability gave him strength and power enough to help the disabled – at least few out of the millions in India. An NGO called FAMILY OF DISABLED (FOD) was thus born.

Today, Johar is a unique personality. Here is a man who is quadriplegic – whose lower limbs are totally paralyzed, fingers are stiff, has no control on his bowels and urinary system, cannot eat or drink by himself yet he is working more than many of us, he handles two telephones, he controls his ceiling fan, TV et al besides staff which consists of at least 10

FAMILY OF DISABLED is the organization which is life and soul of Shri Johar. After Johar was destined to bed he felt he had become a liability to everyone. Over two years passed. Suddenly Johar had an idea- now that I know first hand what disability is, why not offer some help to those who are not only disabled but also had no money – at least Johar himself did have some monetary support from his wife and elder brother.

Such were the wild ideas Johar was nurturing. By 1986 Johar was a different person – lying on the bed he pursued his conviction. The handicapped trickled by his bedside. They were encouraged to do some work to earn their living. But where is the money? We have no skills to do any job.

Johar arranged for their initial requirements – got them say, a tricycle with a box fixed at the back. The box was filled with biscuits, toffees and other items which can be sold among kids and the adults alike. Money? It came through some philanthropists and the man was put on rails for his earnings – howsoever small. Some such recipients are running Chalta Phirta PCO; some others are small time shopkeepers.

This is what was later called Apna Rozgar Scheme (ARS). Until now 507 persons have had the pride of earning their bread and butter – some to the extent of Rs.6000 to 10,000/- every month.

FOD also invites their paintings which find their way into Art Exhibitions called Beyond Limits where these are sold to the connoisseurs. The money so collected is passed on to the painters.

That is not all. FOD is the only organization which brings out a Quarterly magazine VOICE wholly dedicated to the disabled. It is perhaps the only magazine of its kind in India.

With all this Johar is the personification of light heartedness. “What do you think, am I not leading a King’s life? For all my chores I have to just ring a bell and someone is there to get me what I want. I have different bells for different persons to present themselves before me. Is this any way less than a king’s life?” he giggles.

No wonder this ‘King’ has been amply covered by the media- both print and electronic. He has been decorated with several awards by no less than the President of India to the Chief Minister of Delhi.

Rajinder Johar or FOD can be contacted on phone no. # 011-41570140, 25597328,
e mail : admin@familyofdisabled.org & website: www.familyofdisabled.org

Sunday, February 07, 2010



MahaShivratri is on the 12th of February. Please read what I have compiled.
It is interesting and important to know specially if you are a Hindu...

http://www.dalsabzi.com/Language_Festivals/shivratri.htm

Wednesday, February 03, 2010




My friend just lost her husband. It was shocking! My friend called out to him to come for dinner...He answered: "coming" She called again and he did not reply...She went looking for him and he had already passed on!
He was not ill. All of us, her friends are in shock.

You are about to read a story.


The Pandavas had been traveling for quite a long time and had just managed to return to Dwaitavana, their starting point. Thirsty, the Pandavas sat down near some moss-covered logs and looked around for water.


To their right lay a large lake. The first of the Pandavas, Nakula, walked alone towards the lake to quench his thirst. As he did this, a booming voice echoed from the lake, “Stop! This is my lake, and you may not drink from it without answering my questions." Nakula ignored the lake, only interested in a sip of cool water to drink. He proceeded to cup his hands full of water and brought it to his lips. Cool water filled his mouth, he swallowed, and as he did this he instantly fell dead.
One by one all the other Pandava brothers died as they did not heed the what the Yaksha threatened to do.


Yudhishthira sat alone on the log, and naturally went looking for his brothers. As he walked through the forest he began to worry. Ahead of him there was no noise, only silence filled his ears. He approached the lake and screamed with agony when he saw his brothers. He quickly examined them for wounds, but he did not see any penetrating marks or any signs of illness.

Then the booming voice returned, “do not make the mistake of your brothers. Please answer my questions and you may drink from my lake.”

Yudhishthira agreed to answer his questions but requested to know his identity. “I am a Yaksha, and I guard this lake. I warned all four of your brothers not to drink from me without my permission.”

Yudhishthira responded, “Then I will answer your questions.” Before he could finish his response, the Yaksha began his riddles. “Who is heavier than the Earth?”

Yudhishthira responded, “Mother.”


...and Yudhishtira answered all 100 questions correctly.

You will wonder what connection does this story have with my friend's husband's death?
One of the questions that Yaksha asked was what is the 'strangest thing in the world?
Yudhishtira replied that everyone knows that they are supposed to die yet everyone thinks that they will live forever...

We do not need to be morbid, but we need to close each day remembering that there is a possibility that you may die or your close one will...

Then maybe, there will be shock and pain but maybe no regrets.
I love my friend and I pray that God grant her and her family strength and also peace to the departed soul!


To continue with the story, Yaksha said:
“You have answered all of my questions perfectly. As your reward all of your brothers will rise.” Just like the Yaksha said, each and every brother rose from the ground untouched. At this time the Yaksha materialized in front of the brothers. It was none other than Yudhishthira’s father, Yama. Yama is the lord of death, and the god of Justice...
Parts of what I have written are excerpts from 'Yudhishtira and Yama' by Nich Huber

Sunday, January 31, 2010


On the 19th of January 2010 I attended a meeting at the IMC where Varkha Chulani (Clinical Psychologist) spoke on the Management of Anger.
Some points:
Whenever you are angry
1) Accept reality
2) Don't blame
When I blame others...for my misfortune, it is lack of education
When I blame myself, education has begun
When I neither blame myself and others, education is complete...

An angry person compromises himself too much...
We adjust too much...lose ourselves and then become angry...
...Self sacrificing is self defeating

2 Rules
Love yourself...then...at least one person will love you

Dont needlessly deliberately harm another human being

We have a dangerous idea: Others come before me...I dont matter...

People say we are conditioned to adjust and self sacrifice...the Question is...We were condition to go early to bed and early to rise...how many of us follow conditionings?

You believe:
I am good when I am perfect...So everytime you slip you are angry and hate yourself...

Don't be a superwoman, allow yourself the permission to trip...

We are always validating ourselves by others opinions...

Then I went to a talk by Rohini Gupta.
She was the icing on the cake
She reminded us that
FEAR
is
False Evidence Appearing Real

Thursday, January 28, 2010

School friends meet




We had a lunch at Shobha Jethmalani Gehani's place in Mumbai.
In the photograph from right to left: Shobha Jethmalani Gehani, Sajni Melwani, Rani Jethmalani, Sheila Moorjani and Myself.
It was interesting, meeting my school friends, touching, to be able to connect, awe inspiring to see Rani, the medical miracle (she has had a kidney and liver transplant) looking as young and lively as ever...

Sunday, January 24, 2010


Are you a Shirdi Sai Baba devotee?
If so see see photograph and read the article of

Laxmibai holding the 9 coins given to her by Sai Baba.

I am standing on her right.

Click:

http://www.dalsabzi.com/Message/Shirdi_Sai_Baba.htm

I received the following comment from a reader:
Comment :
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Friday, January 22, 2010




Anna Quindlen, Pulitzer Prize-winning author



I, Shacune am a writer...You may read my books on my website www.dalsabzi.com they are up for free perusal...No, I have not received an award, but I know that I do what I was meant to do...and I feel exactly what Anna feels...Read what she has to say


This was a speech made by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Anna Quindlen at the graduation ceremony of an American university where she was awarded an Honorary PhD.


Most brilliant, to the point speech to get all of us thinking....

"I'm a novelist. My work is human nature. Real life is all I know. Don't
ever confuse the two, your life and your work. You will walk out of here
this afternoon with only one thing that no one else has. There will be
hundreds of people out there with your same degree: there will be thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk or your life on a bus or in a car or at the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank accounts but also your soul. People don't talk about the soul very much anymore. It's so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is cold comfort on a winter' night, or when you're sad, or broke, or lonely, or when you've received your test results and they're not so good.

Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my work stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the centre of the universe. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends and them to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a cardboard cut out. But I call them on the phone and I meet them for lunch. I would be rotten, at best mediocre, at my job if those other things were not true. You cannot be really first rate at your work if your work is all you are. So here's what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger pay cheque, the larger house. Do yo think you'd care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon or found a lump in your breast?


Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water pushing itself on a breeze at the seaside, a life in which you stop and watch how a red-tailed hawk circles over the water, or the way a baby scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a sweet with her thumb and first finger.


Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up the phone. Send an email. Write a letter. Get a life in which you are generous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that you have no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about its goodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have spent on beer and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if yo do not do good too, then doing well will never be enough.

It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, and our minutes. It is so easy to take for granted the colour of our kids' eyes, the way the melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again. It is so easy to exist instead of to live.


I learned to live many years ago. I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today is the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in the world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it, completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling others what I had learned. By telling them this: Consider the lilies of the field. Look at the fuzz on a baby's ear. Read in the back yard with the sun on your face.


Learn to be happy. And think of life as a terminal illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived".


Anna

Monday, January 18, 2010






For our November meeting of the Group 21, we invited one of our own members, Ruksana Vahanvatty to enlighten us on various forms of Divinations and Ancient Knowledge.

She explained:
From the 'Void' comes 'chi' also known as 'prana; or Cosmic Energy.
From the chi, also comes the ying and the yang (google search the terms (chi, ying, yang, I ching) if you would like to know more about it.

I Ching is a form of divination...
One of the elements is Martial Arts...another is Medicine...Acupressure, Acupuncture, Shiastu...Tea Ceremony is a Meditation...One should try and raise ones energy all the time...one must aspire to feel connected and centred every day...
Thankyou Ruksana for your enlightening talk!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

A Must see speech by Dr Shashi Tharoor
http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/videoshow_ted/5284245.cms

Thursday, January 14, 2010


Dear Friends,
This note came from Deepa Chauhan. She is a dear friend...

All,

I am closely invloved with Saathi and now also with FACSE - forum against child sexual abuse - for which we have taken up convenorship last year (it goes to various NGOs by rotation). Do spread the word to at least start a dialogue about this issue


Child sexual abuse is a crime that most of us keep reading in the papers about. Some of us push it aside as it is a crime, like many others that don't seem to fit into our scheme of problems. Some of us want to do something about it but just don't know how a single person can make a change. And some of us just plain don't understand it. But that's exactly what we have to do. It is a reality that has its arms closer than you may think.

Forum against Child Sexual Exploitation (FACSE) is an unregistered network comprising of different professionals and organizations, working towards addressing the concern of sexual exploitation and abuse of children. The aim of FACSE is to create awareness about the issue of child sexual abuse among different target groups as well as the general public and to handle individual cases through home visits, psycho-social intervention and referral to other NGO’s.

“We are Children” is a national Campaign attempting to understand how child sexual abuse affects a person and a community by collecting narratives of reactions, experiences or perceptions of child sexual abuse. A story not only concerns the survivor but understand that even denial or misconceptions make the issue what it is today. Every voice counts – the dissenting and the supportive, the skeptical and the hurt. FACSE is a part of this Campaign and would like to introduce it to its world. Awareness about Child Sexual Abuse is a good starting point.

Visit: www.wearechildren.org

Join the campaign. 19th Nov 2009 to May 2010

Contribute your story at mappingstoriesmumbai@gmail.com

Take a stand against child sexual abuse. Make a difference.


PS - Please forward this mail to everyone on your contact list.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

My Masi (Ma jaisi) Guli



I know that this photograph is bound to bring a smile to the face of those who knew Aunty Guli. This photograph was taken in Hyderabad Sindh when she was a young damsel.
My Masi Guli is no more. The incense has burnt out but the fragrance lingers on.
The fragrance of her soft spoken words and humility will never fade away.

My Aunty Guli played a very important part in my life.
As most of you know I was brought up in Spain. At the age of 13 my mother (My father passed on when I was 4 years old) brought me to Bombay. She wanted to open out the world for me. She wanted me to learn english and learn about our Indian culture and Hindu Way of Life.

I had to get admission in a good school. It was difficult as I knew only Spanish and Sindhi and I had to be admitted in the 8th Standard...To make the situation more difficult I was not willing to repeat a class.

My Masi, tirelessly did the rounds of every good school until I was admitted in Queen Mary High School, Bombay.

The above opened a new chapter in my life.
That Chapter opened the world to me.
Read about it, click:
http://www.dalsabzi.com/articles/back_to_school.htm

I thank her for being Ma jaisi to me.
Yesterday I was discussing with her sons the fact that she always 'acted' never reacted.

May her blessed Soul rest in eternal peace at the lotus feet of the Lord!

Thursday, January 07, 2010



Epiphany Christ and Krishna

Dear Children,

Did you know that there are interesting similarities in the life of Christ and Krishna? Their names also sound similar.

Kansa, the king of Mathura was warned that a child (already born) would kill him (Kansa) when the child grew up.

So Kansa decided to kill young babies.

Herod, the king of Palestine was also warned of being killed at the hand of a child born recently…Herod also decided to slaughter the new-borns.

Krishna was born in jail and Christ in a manger.

Both were saved from the wrath of Herod and Kansa.

Hindus believe that Krishna is an Avtaar (Incarnation) of God.

In simple words, God came to earth taking the body of a human being.

Christ's birth commemorates the manifestation of divinity in the world.

In simple words, it means that godly things came to earth along with Jesus' birth.



While we are on the subject of Jesus' birth, let me tell you a few more things connected with it. You all have heard of Christmas. Have you heard of Epiphany?

Epiphany is called the 'Festival of Lights' and it falls on the 12th day after Christmas. When I was a child and lived in Spain, we used to get gifts on the day of 'Reyes'.

Reyes literally means 'Kings' and it is on that day (5th of January) that the Wise men from the East visited baby Jesus and gave him the gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.



It is believed that the Wise Kings, were led to baby Jesus by a bright star in the sky. I like to believe that it was the position of stars. The kings were probably learned astrologers, and the stars predicted the birth of a divine child.

The Kings came from the East. I like to believe that maybe they came from India.

Read what Marguerite Theophil has to say:
Most of us know the genial red-suited Christmas giftgiver as Santa Claus or Father Christmas. Interestingly, in many countries there are traditions of gift-bringers known by other names, too. Many of these bring gifts to children not in December, but on January 6, celebrated in some places as the feast of the Three Wise Men.
An interesting gift-bringer tradition is that of La Befana, a character in Italian folklore who delivers presents to children on the eve of January 6, filling their stockings with candy and presents if they are good or a lump of coal or dark candy if they are bad. Being a good housekeeper, many say she will sweep the floor before she leaves. A small glass of wine and a plate of food are often left for her – the disappearance of which ‘proves’ she did visit!
Though depicted as a witchlike old woman, complete with sharp nose, black shawl and a broom, she is no figure of fear, but children in Italy eagerly await her visit. Several tender stories are associated with La Befana.
One story tells of the three wise men, wandering in search of Christ the child. They decide to stop at a small house late one night to ask for directions. An old woman holding a broom opens the door to see who is there, and finds on her doorstep three colourfully dressed men, asking for directions to where baby Jesus could be. She has no idea, but generously provides them with shelter for the night, and before leaving, they ask her to join them on their sacred journey in thanks for her kindness to them.
She declines immediately, saying she has so much housework to do – sweeping, dusting, chopping wood and cooking for guests who might drop in. But after they leave she feels as though she has made a terrible mistake, and packing a bag of gifts for the newborn, decides to catch up with them. Even after many hours and days of walking and searching, sadly she is not able to find them.
Each year on the eve of the Epiphany she sets out looking for baby Jesus. On her journey, she leaves all good children toys and candy, and in an attempt to get children to behave well, parents warn that naughty children would get a chunk of coal instead.
Another Christian legend takes on a sadder tone with Befana who loses her dearly loved child. Her resulting grief maddens her. Hearing news of Jesus being born, she set out to see him, delusional that he is her son. She eventually meets Jesus and presents him with her gifts. The infant Jesus gives La Befana a gift in return – she would be the mother of every child in Italy.
It is interesting that one take on her name could be a mutation of the word Epifania or Epiphany, which can be translated as ‘the display of Divinity’; a revelation of a great, enduring truth. An epiphany is a deep understanding of the nature of the world that can change the way one looks at things. ..


To continue with similarities between Christ and Krishna, Krishna said: "Sarva bhuta hite ratah" which means that ones must act for the good of humanity. Christ's main teaching was that of love and service. All religions that I have read about practice meditation, and chanting in one form or another. For a Christian, to practice meditation is to become aware of God who resides in the stillness of ones heart.



Do you know what Chanting means? It means 'to repeat a spiritual word or short phrase from a Scripture, over and over again'. It is a kind of prayer. And it is supposed to be powerful. If you ask me, I believe the constant chanting keeps one, from thinking unnecessary thoughts. One listens to ones Mantra as one repeats it…And God likes that! God does not like it when we constantly think and worry about things and situations that cannot be helped. God likes it, when after one does ones best, One lets go (of the problem) and lets God (handle it).



Chanting is practiced in all the major religions. Hindus chant Mantras with the help of a 'mala' and Christians repeat the 'Hail Mary' with the help of a rosary. Hindus chant Aum, Christians say 'Amen' Both sound similar.
Hindus chant 'Hare Rama' Christians chant "Maranatha" (Means: The Lord comes) I believe that both the prayers reach the Lord at the same time. What is important is to pray with a pure heart. And all Great Masters appeared on Earth to teach us the above fact. Ponder on the above facts. Jesus said: "Love thy neighbor as thyself" And your neighbor is one who lives next door to you and shares the same neighborhood or building. We share the same planet and as such, all who live in this world are our neighbors. And we must learn to love one another.

Think about it.




If you would like to know more about Jesus, click:



http://www.dalsabzi.com/Message/jesus1.htm


http://www.dalsabzi.com/Song_of_life/jesus.htm

Sunday, January 03, 2010



In the photograph, Ms Asha Anand and Milkman Mr Lalji Upadhyaya

One fine day my good respected friend Dr Anand called me and told me: Shakun, I would like you to come for this month's 'MRA Initiatives of Change' Meeting. This Saturday we shall meet a 'gentleman'who has been delivering Milk on a bycicle for the last 30 years...What is so unique is the fact that the man is so serene and content. We are going to have an informal evening and ask him the raaz (secret) of his joy!

When I saw Lalji (7th of November 2009) he looked more like a 'Swami' and as he belted out couplet after couplet from the Ramayan, I just thought that the 'speaker' had changed at the last moment...but I was wrong, He was Lalji Upadhyaya.

We asked him the secret of his contentment. He felt he had enough to live for and so he would not compromise his honesty (By mixing water with milk or whatever else was dishonest) He had full faith in the Lord. Once when his bycicle was stolen, He complained to Hanumanji, rather than complain to those who may be 'robbers' themselves...A friend who had attended the meeting said 'Is'nt it good to be ambitious? Ambani and Gates were ambitious and brought up the economy...Another gentleman who attended said: 'It is creditable that living in the place of Dreams, Bombay...Lalji could continue to live in a contented manner...His son who is succesful by material means offered Lalji a car. Lalji refused.Someone asked, What if you became old and crippled? He said then maybe I will accept it. Who knows? Live in the moment and do your best and leave the rest! That is what Krishna says in the Bhagvad Geeta...In the 12th verse of the 12th Chapter Krishna says: Better than rituals is Knowledge, better that knowledge is meditation, better than meditation is renunciation of fuits of action...Peace immediately follows!

Early in Life Lalji learned:
It is important not to measure personal success and sense of well being through material possessions.
Success is about the sense of independance; it is not about seeing the world but seing the light.
Imagination is everything. If we can imagine a future, we can create it,If we can create the future, others will live in it. That is the essence of success.
and
You should leave your newspaper and your toilet, the way you expect to find it. This lesson is about showing consideration to others.

Happy New Year!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

I read a new concept yesterday. People regularly ask me my 'thought' concerning Free Will and Destiny. You may like to read what I have to say on Karma and its theory on my website (Search 'Karma theory dalsabzi)
What the note read is this: If one believes that one has free will (at least to an extent) one will utilize ones faculties to overcome ones difficulty...
I am reminded of a story: God asked a person to move the door from a cave...he tried and tried abut was unable to move it...Dejected, the person told the Lord 'As hard as I tried, I could not open the entrance to the cave' The Lord replied: I only asked you to move it, never to open the entrance...the opening I will do...you just have a look at your muscles...'
If one looks back, it is the time of adversity that made one 'grow' the happy times were to take a breather...

Tuesday, December 29, 2009


I told GOD: Let all my loved ones be healthy and happy forever...!

GOD said: 4 days only....!

I said: OK! let them be SO ON a Spring Day, A Summer Day, AN Autumn Day, and A Winter Day.

GOD said: NOOOOOOOOOOO 3 days..

I said: OK! Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.

GOD said: NOOOOOOOOOOO, THEN 2 days!

I said: OK! a Bright Day (Daytime) and Dark Day (Night-time).

GOD said: NoOOOOOOOOOOOO just 1 day!

I said: Yes! OK!

GOD asked: Which day?

I said: Every Day in the living years of all my friends!

GOD laughed, and said: You Sindhis know how to negotiate. But since you are praying and asking happiness for your friends, I can't refuse. I love everyone who thinks of others first, so don't you worry...All your friends will be healthy and happy Every Day!



ALL THE BEST! MAY YOU ALWAYS BE HAPPY & HEALTHY

Friday, December 25, 2009




Uzma Naheed is a Trustee of WMPP (Women's Movement for Peace and Prosperity)

As per her Micro Financing arrangement - that she termed as first of its kind in India that too totally on non interest basis - Uzma Nahid under the banner of Iqra International Women Alliance (IIWA) offers two options:

First, IIWA lends Rs.2000 as an initial amount to the women that they have to return back in an installment of Rs.100 per month. Using the given 2000 rupees, the women either purchase sewing machines or other needed items. IIWA gives them the raw materials to manufacture headscarf, portable and folding Jaye Namaaz - the special mat used for Namaaz, Makwana - the special garment used by Muslim ladies to cover the heads, Juzdaan - the special covering used to cover the Holy Quran and other hand made garments.

Second is like a job work wherein IIWA provides the skilled women the needed raw materials to manufacture the above items, and in return gives them a share in the profit besides giving them labour charges immediatetely...

Wednesday, December 23, 2009



Avtaar The Movie – Similarities with Hindu Teachings and symbols and concepts in Hinduism
In the Hollywood movie Avatar, it is not just the term `Avatar' that is associated with Hinduism. The core concept of Hinduism is that all animate and inanimate are the result of a single energy source, which is Brahman or God. All the plants, animals, human beings rise and fall in this single energy source. This formless and indefinable is given form by humans and worshipped as God. One of the important themes of Avatar is based on this core concept of Hinduism which was taught first time more than 5000 years ago. In the movie, the Na'vis are able to physically connect to animals and plants. And they believe that they are just a part of the whole which includes all animate and inanimate present on their planet Pandora. This concept is explained beautifully and there is a magical scene in which the Tree is connected to the human body and this body is connected to all the Na'vis through holding their hands each other.


Another striking aspect is the use of the color blue. Hindu Gods are depicted blue in color. Blue is the color of the infinite. All Hindu gods are an attempt by the human mind to give form to the formless Brahman (God). The color blues symbolizes immeasurable and all pervading reality – formless Brahman.

Another concept found in Hindu Puranas is Parakaya Pravesham – leaving one's body temporarily and entering the body of another person. Adi Shankaracharya is believed to have done this to enter a king's body so that he can learn about material world. Something quite similar happens in the movies as Humans are able to temporarily enter the body of a Na'vi.

A more visible symbol in the movie is that of the characters in Avatar riding on a flying dragon like being. This is more like Lord Vishnu riding on Garuda.

It is said that great minds think alike in all ages. The great saints of Sanatana Dharma (Hinduism) thought about this 5000 years ago and they tried to explain it to us through symbols and stories. Today we have technology explain the universal truths. But are we listening? We are slowly wiping out the green cover and destroying the Mother Earth thinking that we humans are superior and above all.

But what Avatar missed is foreseen by Hindu seers the total annihilation of human race when there is rise of Adharma (today it is unimaginable greed and lack of concern for mother earth). We are fast heading towards such a situation and this divine action will be carried out by Kalki. Then there is a fresh beginning. The cycle continues and this present age is not the first cycle and it is not the last.

From the internet

Sunday, December 20, 2009

(From left) CineAsia organiser Robert Sunshine, GSC general manager Irving Chee and Twentieth Century Fox Internatioanl Asia-Pacific vice-president

Our son Sunder Kimatrai, vice-president, Asia-Pacific, for Twentieth Century Fox International, got an award as the “Distributor of the Year”

Saturday, December 19, 2009


And while we are ready to celebrate the end of 2009, want to share with you a picture of Diwali Dhamaaka. It was organized by the enterprising smart beautiful girls who attend my Geeta class. They are the mothers of the leaders of tomorrow and I am mighty proud of them!

Every New Year, there is one thing that most of us will indulge in, ie making new resolutions.

But do they work? And if they do, for how long? I would like to share with you something that I read in 'Awaken the Giant within' by Anthony Robbins that seems to make sense.

Associate pain with a habit that you are desperately trying to break... I remember, my son, when he was younger would offer his friends a chocolate with the quip "Have a pimple!"

If you hit a level of pain that you aren't willing to settle for anymore you change your old habits or way of living. You could get fed up when you cannot fit into your clothes, or when you cannot bear another hangover, or the sight of the pained look of your wife when you have lost your last penny at the gambling table...finally you say, ' I have had it ' and you make a decision.

Charles M. Sheldon states: Good resolutions are like babies crying in church. They should be carried out immediately.

It is the desire to remove pain from your life and establish the pleasure of self esteem.

May all your dreams come true this coming year. May we have the strength to kick our old debilitating habits and may we all experience tremendous pleasure at the idea of adopting a new empowering Life.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009



Bharti and myself were school class mates...Today she lives in Hongkong with her family. Her son is getting married soon and she was in Bombay getting Wedding stuff...I was happy to meet my close pal...Dont I look happy?


Charming Priya is my nephew Raju's wife...There was a time when we would do all our shopping abroad and now i am proud to state that nris are more than happy to buy in India. In this picture Priya and myself at Phoenix Mills , Mumbai...

Monday, December 14, 2009




Please read and think about it:
…Although we often behave as if we’re the only ones who live here, we depend on other organisms in all manner of ways.
Some of these are obvious. We hunt fish to eat them; we grow cows for meat, milk and leather. We cultivate silkworms to make clothes. We grow a large number of plants for diverse purposes – to eat, or to use as drugs, timber or paper. But much of our dependence is less obvious. Worms, fungi, insects and microbes consume dead bodies and fallen branches. Some organisms consume dung; others move seeds. Many organisms make soil richer and more fertile. Plants around streams and rivers filter the water and make it cleaner. Plants also take carbon dioxide from the air, and thus affect the composition of the atmosphere; their roots help prevent soils from washing away. Some bacteria may play a role in making clouds; the list goes on.
By and large, we do not pay for any of this: our economics does not, for the most part, include paying for nature. But we pay when it is lost. Less fertile soils make it harder to grow crops. Dirtier water is more expensive to make fit for human consumption. The collapse of fisheries leads to unemployment. The loss of mangroves increases the impact of tsunamis. The loss of animal species increases the risk that humans will catch diseases such as Lyme disease. Again, the list goes on… For we must start cherishing our fellow life forms, and treating them well: we need them, in more ways than we probably imagine. Their loss makes the planet – and ourselves – poorer. So please be up-standing, raise your glasses and join me in a toast to: “Other Life Forms!” And let’s make sure that in the years ahead, we don’t need to change it to “Absent Friends’’
An excerpt from:
A wild celebration
By Olivia Judson

Sunday, December 13, 2009



On the 2nd Oct 2009 I was invited to the Harmony Hall, Nehru Centre by Dr Anand and his charming wife Asha to be a part of the release of 'Himmat' a book on series of selected articles which were published between 1964 and 1981 during which period the Emergency was imposed...
Dignitaries who attended: Ms Kalpana Sharma (Indian Express) Mr Azim Lala (Author of Biography of JRD Tata and 'Thread of God in my Life', Mr Ketkar (Loksatta)

Point which stuck to my mind: Gandhi's, the Harijan had hardly any circulation perse...There was no tv radio as such during those days, but it is ideas in these small tabloids which go on to become history...

I was happy to meet Ms Bhanu Athaiya, the Award Winner for Costume designing of 'Gandhi'

Thursday, December 10, 2009




Last night I saw:

Sammy! The word that broke an empire The following material is from the Internet, but I have read that during a man's lifetime various corridors open up full of opportunities...Most of the time we do not enter into those corridors and so we miss out on fulfilling our life's plan!
Gandhiji listened to his 'inner voice' and took the plunge...and the rest as one says is history!


Sammy was a play in two acts by
Partap Sharma

Directed by
Lillete Dubey

Primetime Theatre Company, Mumbai

From man to Mahatma
Sammy! is the incredible story of Mahatma Gandhi, told by an ensemble of actors in a modern and exciting manner. Led by a lively debate between Mohandas, the man, and the irrepressible Mahatma in him, the play highlights Gandhi's relationships and how he changed everyone he touched.
It traces the transformation of the young Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi from a naive, tongue-tied lawyer into a shrewd politician and finally a Mahatma and recounts his story from his earliest days in South Africa to his final assassination.
Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi was an extraordinary man about whom Einstein once said Generations to come will scarce believe that such a one once walked upon the earth! The play aims to bring alive a man whose influence changed politics forever (and set in motion the journey of others like Nelson Mandela and Martin Luther King). With its dynamic style of presentation it hopes to straddle a large cross section of audiences, especially younger ones, who know him only from dusty textbooks!
The play is important not just as a powerful piece of theatre, but is specially relevant because of the times we live in, where the Mahatma's creed of non materialism and non violence is sorely needed in an age of terrorism and consumerism.
The title of the play is easily explained and becomes clear in the early part of the action. The word Sammy, along with the word coolie, was used as a derogatory term by the whites in South Africa to insult Indians and other coloured people. It originates from the word swami, which actually means master or guru. When he first hears an angry mob in Durban shouting the word as an insult to describe him, the young Mohan smiles and ventures the hope that he may, some day, be able to live up to it.
Sammy! is the result of several years of research on Mahatma Gandhi by Partap Sharma.

Sunday, December 06, 2009



She danced like a fairy and she is physically challenged

I had a most interesting 'Friday, the 4th of December':
In the morning I was invited to SEC celebrating 50 years...What is SEC? It is the Society for the Education for the Crippled...Are they really crippled? You should have seen them dance and praise the Nation and Thank the Lord...Makes one feel embarassed to complain when you see the less priviledged so joyful! I believe that some of them were trained by Shiamak Daver, God bless his soul!
Actually I was invited by my cousin sister Manju who is also challenged, but what a useful life she has led...I love her and I am sure those who know her are inspired by her life!

In the afternoon I attended a session of Celebrating Life where we were taught a Dance Movement Therapy by Dilshaad Patel...We were asked to think and Dance 'Water' I imagined the Ganga flowing from the tresses of Lord Shiva...and then felt beautiful Ganga tripping on pebbles and bypassing boulders, just like you do in Life...

In the evening was invited to the Prince of Wales Museum(Is it also called Chhatrapati Shivaji?) by Vimla Patil ...I listened enthralled to Mr McGill who showed us slides of paintings/photographs/artifacts that proved that the Ramayana was an intrinsic part of the life and culture of the people of Rangoon...and Vimla Patil adds that:

Indian religion and culture
influenced all Asian countries for centuries and
Ramayana was a major vehicle. Thoug many of the
countries are now Islamic states (Indonesia, Malaysia)
these countries under the Asean Group meet every so
often and the entertainment on this occasion is the
performance of Ramakien or Ramayan irrespective of the
religion
of the participants. It is therefore sad that the
people of India, irrespective of our religious
background, cannot venerate this epic which is the
heritage of all Indians.

'The lecture-slide show was
presented by Mr. Forrest McGill, curator of the Museum
of Asian Art, San Francisco, USA. It was on the theme
of how Hinduism, Buddhism and other Indic religions had
influenced the Siam and Burmese culture with motifs and
sculptural styles repeating themselves in the
construction of temples, in creating art objects and in
the art of music and drama. The Ramayana is one of the
major influences on many Asian countries which have
their own versions of this epic. For instance Thailand
(Siam) has Ramakien which is also done as a dance
drama'

Thursday, December 03, 2009




You must get to know Dattatreya. He made 24 Gurus... His Jayanti (Birthday was celebrated on the 1st of December
Do click:
http://www.dalsabzi.com/Books/In_touch_with_masters/prologue_and_blessings.htm

Wednesday, December 02, 2009




Giving Thanks

Gratitude connects us to others and feeling gratitude allows us to be our
best selves--in good times and in hard times. When we are truly grateful, we
can count on living the life we want. Excerpted from Giving Thanks

Do you know that happiness, the sheer joy in being alive, is within your
reach? All you need is an attitude of gratitude. Gratitude creates happiness
because it makes us feel full, complete; it's the recognition that we have
all we need, at least in this moment.
Recent scientific research has begun to indicate that positive emotions,
such as gratitude and love, strengthen and
enhance the immune system, enabling the body to resist disease and recover
more quickly from illness, through the release of endorphins into the
bloodstream. Endorphins are the body's natural painkillers.

Among other effects, they stimulate dilation of the blood vessels, which leads to a
relaxed heart.What this means is that the more we experience a sense of
gratitude, we literally bathe ourselves in good hormones and feel happier
and more content with our lives. Like most great spiritual truths, gratitude
is stunningly simple. This is not to say it's necessarily easy to practice.

All kinds of distractions, and negative attitudes from our
upbringings may get in the way. But all you really have to do to receive
gratitude's gifts is make a commitment to be thankful on a daily basis, and
the world will be suddenly transformed into a beautiful wonderland in which
you are invited to play.

I am grateful for my health, my husband, my children, my amazing friends! Hugs!

I got the above from an email fwd...but I would like to add that whenever we do Reiki we have to have an attitude of gratitude and so I may safely add that if one would like to manifest miracles in ones life it is important to cultivate the habit of being thankful
Shakun