I attended a panel discussion on Marriages.
(Photo) Our marriage 1965
I shall walk with you aways, in joy and in sorrow

The following were the conclusions:
MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE THE BEST THING GOING
The first solution to all problems is:
Effective Communication:
Listen more talk less
Never say: 'it is your fault’
Do not communicate when angry.
Look at the plus points in your marriage
You do not have to agree on everything...you can love intensely despite...
You must allow each other to grow
Speak your mind clearly and gently
Do not ask 'How was your day?' ask specific Qs.
Remember 'men come from Mars and Women from Venus. We may not be able to understand each other fully, but we can still love.
Celebrate the difference and complement one another. A great marriage is not when the perfect couple comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy the differences'